What a boyfriend

2nd hand girlfriend??

Received a call moments ago, kindda have a mixture of feelings inside me. Empathy and anger. My friend was in tears, sobbing as she talked to me.

That bastard labeled her as 2nd hand cos she's not a virgin before they were together.. I was shocked to hear that, as to the fact that she's not a.. cos she looks so pleasant to me. Indeed, she's a good girl. I no longer despise these girls anymore, and I won't label them as 'stupid', cos this girl here trust her guy too much, though he's asking for more than he should expect.

Seriously, without the presence of bastards like the boyfriend that labeled her as 2nd hand, will any inocent girls get laid before marriage? I don't know whether I'm doing the right thing, I told her to break up with this guy, and I'm quite determine to break them up. If she's looking forward for marriage, how can she marry such a man? So whenever they have a tiff, this will be brought up again? And that guy will probably divorce her for a 16 yr old girl in the future, I mean, who knows?

I mean seriously, quite a number of guys no longer mind about the virginity of their wives, and these, from what I can see, are guys that understand why some innocent girls aren't, and are also definitly BETTER than that moron. She deserves a better guy.

Girls out there, especially young ones, please protect yourself!!!!! Save the 'best' for the last guy that marries you!

Never allow emotions to take control. Think logically - should you? Or should you not? Obviously you shouldn't give in and that's common sense! Shan't elaborate, so tired and I did not have time to do homework cos of the comforting. I just guess she needed a listening ear.

Silly girl, I really hope that she can move on. What's the big deal being single! You get to see and meet more people! She's too dependent on a boyfriend, maybe I should advise her on dog ownership so she'll have a true friend to depend on?